• ravhall@discuss.online
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    2 months ago

    “It just exploded into something I didn’t mean to happen,”

    She mean’t it. She just didn’t mean to get in trouble.

    • RozhkiNozhki@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      2 months ago

      If you didn’t mean it you shouldn’t have lied about it in the first place. What kind of deranged asshat would make up stories like that.

      • ravhall@discuss.online
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        2 months ago

        Racists? Christians? Trump supporters? Karens? Women trying way too hard to get their trumpet husband to love them? People who tell racist jokes, but lead with, “I’m not racist, but—“

    • lennybird@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      2 months ago

      It’s times like this where I sometimes feel people need a license to surf the internet.

    • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      2 months ago

      Racists always mean what they say

      It’s only when they’re caught or called out on what they said that they want to back track on everything.

      It takes a coward to say terrible things anonymously and it’s only a coward that pretends they didn’t mean what they said.

      • Em Adespoton@lemmy.ca
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        2 months ago

        I’d partially disagree here; a lot of people don’t know how to effectively communicate, and speak in cultural innuendo and clichés because that’s the language they think in. They don’t really fully understand what they, or the people they surround themselves with mean.

        Think of it like the kid in elementary school that learns a new word or phrase and sees the reaction it gets when others use it, so they (over) use it themselves to get the same reaction without understanding what it actually means.

        That’s how a lot of these people live their entire lives.

        That doesn’t excuse it, but it does explain it. These people have no intent to harm; they don’t understand the implications of what they’re saying enough for that.

        And this is why education is so important.

        Those who have been educated in critical thinking and effective communication and STILL say things like that? They’re the evil manipulative ones.

        TL;DR: it’s possible to be ignorantly racist because that’s all you know.

        • ravhall@discuss.online
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          0
          ·
          2 months ago

          “Casually racist”

          Which means they won’t beat them, but they’ll vote against them. My grandmother wouldn’t hire Asian house cleaners because they were thieves, but she loved having them do her nails. She always pointed out black people in public. “Look at him” she would say casually. She also said in her will that if anyone was gay they couldn’t get inheritance.