A ephebophile is a older adult who are sexually attracted to 15 and 19.

It really grinds my gears that society doesn’t have a problem with a 18 year old having consensual sex with a 17-year-old. Even though the 18 year old is an adult and the 17 year old is a minor. But if 26 year old has consensual sex with a 18 year old. Ah then society has a problem. But why should that be a problem? When both actions are completely harmless as long as both people are consenting adults.

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    But I’m not talking about dating. I’m just talking about a having a causal sexual relationship with a 18 year old woman. If a 18 year old woman wants to be in a casual sexual relationship with me then. Why should society shame me by call me a sexual predator and a pedophile for it. When me and her are both literally consenting adults.

    Also what is an Immature adult in your opinion?

    Does me being a full-time construction worker living in my 1 bedroom condo playing video games all day, cooking my own meals and paying my bills on time mean that I’m a Immature adult?

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      No, you’re talking About ephobephilia, which is fucking kids. It’s even in the title of your post and in the comment of your post if you weren’t talking about fucking kids, you wouldn’t have mentioned it.

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      If you’re 25+ and want to have a sexual relationship with someone that’s 18 (or younger, which is actually what you’re talking about), it means that you’re an immature adult yes, and it also means that you’re probably attracted to children. Don’t be a pedo.

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        The majority of 25 year olds I know would not mind being with an 18 year old. Why pretend it’s not like that?

        Calling the 18 year olds children is just trying to make it sound like it wouldnt matter of they are 14 or 18. It matters very much to any normal person.

        If you don’t believe me, ask any 18 year old girl who wears tight clothes, what age are the guys looking at her body when she walks around? And then you don’t have to trust me.

        It’s biology, you can’t change that with political correctness…

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          If you don’t believe me, ask any 18 year old girl who wears tight clothes, what age are the guys looking at her body when she walks around?

          First off, it’s not okay for that to be happening in the first place. Just because it happens doesn’t make it okay. Secondly, I guarantee that these same men look at 15-17 year olds the same way. Do you really think that they’re asking ages before checking them out? This is not a good argument. It’s hilarious that you’re also speaking for women, when you clearly are not one.

          It’s biology, you can’t change that with political correctness…

          This isn’t about political correctness, this is about not being a pedophile or an otherwise creepy little man. There’s a thing called self control and self discipline, you know? We’re intelligent creatures, it’s biology, after all.

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        But me only want to have sex with 18 and 19 year old woman makes me a ephebophile by definition.

        A Pedophile is someone who is sexually attracted to pre pubescent children. For example if 15 year old has sex with a 9 year old then that 15 year old is a pedophile by definition.

        Both ephebophilia and pedophilia are two completely different things you idiot.

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          only regarding the specific rage of ages of the kids you want to fuck: adolescent vs preadolescent children.

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            So you think a 18 year old woman is a child because if you do you’re an idiot.

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              Straw man

              A straw man fallacy (sometimes written as strawman) is the informal fallacy of refuting an argument different from the one actually under discussion, while not recognizing or acknowledging the distinction.[1] One who engages in this fallacy is said to be “attacking a straw man”.

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                Bro you the one that using strawman agurements. In the OP I clearly say that ephebophilia between two consenting adults is not morally wrong.

                So do you think a 26 year old man being sexually attracted to a 18 or 19 your woman is not a ephebophile?

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                  In the OP I clearly say that ephebophilia between two consenting adults is not morally wrong.

                  this argument is flawed because

                  #ephebophelia cannot exist between two adults since

                  So do you think a 26 year old man being sexually attracted to a 18 or 19 your woman is not a ephebophile?

                  first, i don’t believe you’re interested in that, or you wouldn’t be here trying to convince everyone it’s ok to fuck kids. but, also:

                  Straw man

                  A straw man fallacy (sometimes written as strawman) is the informal fallacy of refuting an argument different from the one actually under discussion, while not recognizing or acknowledging the distinction.[1] One who engages in this fallacy is said to be “attacking a straw man”.

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                    Love how you just dodge my question So I will ask you again do you think a 26 year old man who is only sexually attracted to 18 and 19 year old woman is. not a ephebophile By definition?