

I guess I have always been hyper-rational. I know we don’t connect and know she does with the other lady, and I know I will have many other cats to take (temporary) care of. While I enjoyed taking care of her, I still think that it’s for the best this way. Maybe one day I will keep a foster cat as my own additionally to Miez, but only if they get along perfectly, which wasn’t the case here. Indira is way too energetic for Miez.
The thing is, I don’t get emotionally too involved when I go in with the clear expectation that only a PERFECT fit for Miez will stay. It’s more like when I visit others and there is a cat there. I always get along with cats best (way better than with children and even with most people). Before you ask, yes, I’m definitely on the spectrum somewhere but without diagnosis.