• Today@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I’m still surprised by how genuine people seem to be. Sometimes someone comments or messages me and my expectation is sarcasm, judgement, or general shittiness; so I’m unsure how to reply. I think I’ve responded negatively sometimes just because i was reflexively defensive.

  • d00phy@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Unlike what seems like many, I kind of like not having so many people here. It means there’s a good chance comments and posts will be seen by others. Reddit was/is so populated that posting anything there was like speaking into a gaping void (of hatred, many bad -isms, and occasionally friendly helpful folks).

  • Carrolade@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Greater degree of healthy dialogue. People disagree on here, but they’ll more often talk it out and try to come to an understanding of some sort. Generally more curious and/or interested people and less vague shitposting.

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      4 months ago

      Totally agree. One of the really cool things I’ve seen on here is people acknowledge being wrong instead of being cranky shites about it.

      Not only is it OK to be wrong but it’s absolutely brilliant to acknowledge it.

      Love the quality of discussion here.

    • strawberry@kbin.run
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      4 months ago

      that’s what I liked about reddit originally, and I feel like its much stronger here. especially since this is such a small community, basically every one of my comments (aside from ones on shitposts and the like) gets at least one solid response

  • i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca
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    4 months ago

    I love being finished doomscrolling after 15 or 20 minutes not because I hate myself, but because I ran out of fresh content for the day.

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    4 months ago

    I can be on here a LOT less than other apps and not feel like I’m addicted. I jump on to post a couple of things and scroll for a few minutes and I feel like I’m good for the day.

    • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world
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      4 months ago

      yeah that’s probably because there’s not very much content here. which I admit is good because lack of content equals reduced addiction.

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        4 months ago

        I think it’s also the fact that there’s not any algorithm that’s literally built to keep you doom scrolling.

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      4 months ago

      Being able to check stuff once or twice a day without feeling like im missing out is nice. There are enough algorithms that i can get a slice of lemmy-life.
      And there are enough algorithms to almost support my doomscrolling on a bad day