Fairest comment yet, and I recognize your attempt to rein the conversation back in — so thank you for that.

Well honestly, I think this is for better or worse just how I write. Feel free to look through my comment history but I didn’t consciously go out of my way to write different here any more than elsewhere except for maybe dot my i’s and cross my t’s a little more tightly, knowing that any low-hanging fruit I leave behind will be cannon-fodder for an attack against me (too dumb; too arrogant, etc.).

I enjoy a healthy written discussion. What really gets under my nerves are insincere double-standards when people are reading these threads… When you write from a position of the minority, knowing what you’re writing is unpopular but still have strong convictions about it, you recognize the uphill battle that is going against ingrained beliefs and bandwagon/ad-populum fallacies. I’m fully aware one should be on their best behavior when in these situations, but it can be difficult to maintain perfect composure when you’re taking blows left and right and anonymous down-votes despite any substantive response to the points being presented. I just wish people cut me a little more slack when the user basically said I suffered child abuse and am committing child abuse to my kids without merit. I suspect most here wouldn’t maintain composure either under such audacious claims.

I had the sources from the start but I figured (a) The initial user made an outlandish claim, didn’t back it up, and nobody interrogated them for evidence, and (b) even when you provide sources against people who want to believe otherwise, they often just dismiss them outright or cherry-pick relentlessly. But duly noted that I should maybe just lead with that next time.