• Smorty [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 months ago

    So weird how the one which would normally be female, looks so fluttery and interesting and fluffy and fun, while the male one just looks like a board

    • azertyfun@sh.itjust.works
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      6 months ago

      no but seriously tho

      I’m a cis dude, overall quite masc, but it drives me up the wall how peak acceptable fun in male gender expression is wearing a Hawaiian shirt.

      Anything beyond that (e.g. painting nails) is automatically queer. Which is fine, I am queer, but why would my cis gender expression be classified as queer?? Or put another way, why don’t cishet men paint their nails, wear earrings, or skirts or crop tops? Do they hate fun?

      Wearing a crop-top in public sounds super fun if it wasn’t for the fact that a bland black crop top would earn me even more attention than if I was Margot Robbie herself. My introverted ass can’t handle that. But also I really wanna. God fucking damnit we truly do love in a society.

      Sorry about the rant I guess I had more on my mind than I thought.

    • TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz
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      6 months ago

      Come on, we all know that girls are supposed to wear pretty dresses and fart rainbows while guys are supposed to wear suits and repress their feelings. It’s just common sense! /s