• new_guy@lemmy.world
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    22 days ago

    The sun imploding in the next few billions years. I’ve had conversations about that that I could see in the person’s eyes that they were getting really scared about it.

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      22 days ago

      The eventual annihilation of our species casts a shadow over everything we do. Because we’re ultimately working for something temporary, which will be followed by ultimate death and infinite silence.

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      22 days ago

      Doesn’t it expand into a red giant and envelop the earth first? Make them even more uneasy with that!

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    22 days ago

    Public speaking. I’ve seen surveys where more people are afraid of speaking in front of an audience than they are of dying, which is utterly insane. For the vast, vast majority of scenarios where you might find yourself speaking to a group of people, the risk level is very low. Likewise, in the vast majority of cases, few people are likely to remember much about your performance. It’s just talking.

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      22 days ago

      Well I mean dying is a one time thing. However if you do badly at public speaking you will never hear the end of it. And if you do good they might ask you to do it again.

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        22 days ago

        Can you imagine waking up at 3am and remembering how you said “Salvia” instead of “saliva” in your dissertation?! And it’s been 10 years since, but you KNEW you just outed your habits to the whole audience and your professors?!

        Edit: Death is a sweet release you never have to remember, not like the above.

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          I think most people just think of Sage in general when they hear salvia.

          I’ve a dozen perfectly innocent salvia species and many varietals of each growing in my water-wise garden. When people ask what I’ve got growing and I say “mainly salvias” no one has ever assumed I was farming psychedelics.

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      22 days ago

      I think mine is animalistic fear of damaging yourself. I’m fine, I sit down and act nonchalant. I’ll talk and look at the person or them doing it. But, under that is my skin getting clammy and breaking out in a light sweat…

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        22 days ago

        Totally normal reaction, I mean it isn’t normal to let someone else put metal inside your own body, I get that little sweat too sometimes when the needle goes in. But I wouldn’t say scary.

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    22 days ago

    Children in horror movies, like when they say creepy things or sometimes smile when something horrible is happening.

    Dude, just kick that kid like a football.

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      22 days ago

      The only people who are truly afraid of this are the few wealthy who stand to lose 80% of their enormous wealth that they will never use in their lifetime.

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        22 days ago

        If only. You forgot how people are afraid to help others who came from an other country. Most of people want equality but only with their superiors. And people are afraid to change their lifestyle to a more ecological one.

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      21 days ago

      I’ve always suspected people conflate communism with dictators, which is the main cause of distrust for anything anti-capitalism.

      Are there any examples of a nation successfully transitioning out of capitalism without ending up in a dictatorship? I want to believe it can be done, but I have no idea what it would look like.

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    22 days ago

    Asking someone out on a date.

    I had social anxiety for years, so I probably struggled with this more than most. But it’s surprisingly easy. And more often than not, if your instincts are that that person likes you, you’re usually right.

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      22 days ago

      if your instincts are that that person likes you, you’re usually right.

      They’re not talking about you and i, dear reader.

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    War atrocities. There’s a lot of terrible shit that happened in America, and instead, we teach kids that the Indians gave the pilgrims corn.

    German kids grow up learning about the Holocaust. Japanese kids grow up learning about what they did in WW2.

    Americans are scared to learn about these things that we have book banning and fucktards rewriting history books. It’s not scary, it’s history.

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    22 days ago

    Root canals. The procedure has come a long way since the 90s and is relatively smooth and painless now. Obviously having a good and skillful edodontist also helps, but it’s no longer excruciating like decades ago.

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      Can confirm. The pain kept me awake the night before my appointment, so I was quite tired while having my canals filled. As soon as the dentist had given me a couple of anesthetic shots, I had to struggle to stay awake. I felt nothing during the procedure, and the only pain after was in my wallet.

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      Currently having to deal with finding an endodontist that does retreats, so finding a good one in the first place is the pain.

      The procedure itself is whatever.

      But I am on Xanax when they do they, otherwise I’m not allowed inside a dentist office.

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      22 days ago

      Maybe we could give the ‘everyone is happy’ setting another spin? Having lived this timeline, I feel we might have given up on that one a bit too soon…

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        21 days ago

        The Matrix posits that the late 90s were the peak of human civilization. Given what’s happened in this millennium so far, I think I’m inclined to agree.

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    22 days ago

    Spiders (USA).

    Most spiders are harmless to humans and even beneficial to have around.

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      21 days ago

      I rationally understand that spiders are mostly beneficial but they’re just so alien. Too many legs, too many eyes, move too fast. Also there are a few that will kill you. Here in SoCal black widows are in every dark spot in my garage.