Yes, lady. That's it... - sh.itjust.works
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I recently conmented on a meme with a little personal experience and would like to know what you fine peoples take is?

Thanks!

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  • addictedtochaos@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    IF you had any friends, they would have done their damnedest to protect you from getting yourself in this situation.

    so, either your telling bullshit, or your freiends are not your friends.

    • Steamymoomilk@sh.itjust.worksOPEnglish
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      2 months ago

      Yeah my friends really weren’t my friends, they were all political dick heads. to be honest i really don’t care if another person has another political party they agree with. I’m pretty apolitical and think both sides have certain points that i agree with and disagree with. But somehow politics always got brought up and divided the friend group into political party’s and belligerent bickering ensued. So sophomore year, I just sat by myself and enjoyed my solace. until junior year, where i met some new friends that actually care and didn’t really care about politics and have been hanging with them since :D.

      the year i broke off from them was heavily politicized, and the full friend group i had at the time is now completely dissolved and everybody moved away. and the person who i would consider the “leader” of the friend group, which i had multi experiences with. alot of the time would “Prank” me. which was ultimately a fucked up immoral “joke” if i can call it that.

      we had a MC survival world we all played on, i mean sunk hours into. one day he blew up many peoples houses and put bedrock around. and left signs saying trolololo now see at this point it justs a guy being a dick. but there’s more to this story, so then him and his friend gaslight me for a week that a hacker logged onto the server and destroyed stuff. i explained i worried about if the hacker got our IP addressees and could hurt us. i got like 2 hours of sleep for all week. the other friend felt bad and eventually came clean about the “prank”.

      • addictedtochaos@lemm.ee
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        2 months ago

        thanks for the whole explanation, i get it now, it maskes sense. i apologize for not believing you, but what you tell me kinda sounds similar to what I experienced, and it is similiar to other expiriences.

        i am glad you figured out how to spot bad friendships, and how to deal with that girl.

        dont fret, it will get better and better. it is very neeficial that you learned early on to say no.

        thanks for the clarification! i really value that mindset.

        i hope you are doing good, keep taking care of yourself, and dont let others take advantage of you. bye!

        seriously, thise peope are not your friends, f them.

        i recently gave up my whole friendgroup, becaue i realzed they were not my freinds. now i am just at home, learning to play the guitar.

        have fun!