• grue@lemmy.world
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    This is similar reasoning to how it’s always been obvious to me that the “being gay is a choice” argument bigots make is complete bullshit. If it were a choice, who the fuck would willingly submit themselves to all that discrimination and suffering?!

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      If it were a choice, who the fuck would willingly submit themselves to all that discrimination and suffering?!

      That’s where you really start falling down the rabbit hole and swallowing the “Being gay is a way to worship Satan” and “Homosexuality is a mind-virus created by the Communists to prevent the fittest western males from procreating” blackpills.

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        “Homosexuality is a mind-virus created by the Communists to prevent the fittest western males from procreating” blackpills.

        I’m just a random straight guy so I guess I’m not up to date on all the latest homophobic bullshit, but LOLWUT?

        Given that anyone saying that is implying they think gay guys are the hottest guys, to me it sounds like more of a self-report than anything else.

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          implying they think gay guys are the hottest guys

          You don’t have to be gay to recognize gay-me. Gay dudes are regularly the fittest, smoothest, most well dressed kids on the block.

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        Homosexuality is a mind-virus created by the Communists to prevent the fittest western males from procreating

        This is a lie by a homophobe and yet goes way harder than anything I’ve ever heard a gay person say

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      “How should I know? I’m not gay. Maybe they just love Satan or something.”

      There are plenty of solid arguments about homosexuality not being a choice. This isn’t one.

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      Religious people have been tortured horribly and killed for their religion while refusing to recant their beliefs, and religion is very much a choice. I’m not saying you’re wrong, just that this argument isn’t great.

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        That’s true, to a degree, but it isn’t instinctual. You don’t have people staring into the mirror in the middle of the night trying to figure out why they feel Christian when they’ve never even seen a bible before.

        The big “naturalist” angle on gay/trans issues I see is that there are plenty of bi/fluid people who could choose to lean one way or another exclusively. They kinda get erased simply because they don’t have this deep instinctual impulse towards the taboo end of the spectrum.

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          Many religious people do argue that there is an instinct toward religious belief - the “God shaped hole”, if you’ve heard the expression. There are stories of people feeling an intense sense that there must be some higher power, or something more than their daily life, although obviously they won’t fixate on Christianity without prior exposure.

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            Many religious people do argue that there is an instinct toward religious belief - the “God shaped hole”, if you’ve heard the expression

            I’ve heard this argument for a certain kind of spirituality. And that’s one reason I’m loath to hate on people for being “religious” in the abstract or to dump on “belief in god” as this singular root of moral failing. Just feels like you’re going after people for being neurodivergent.

            obviously they won’t fixate on Christianity without prior exposure

            Right. Shy of the grand standing bullshitters and would-be prophets, I suppose.

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              There was a time when I thought that the arrival of easy global communication and information would lead to the decline of religion, but I don’t anymore. Christianity may have declined to some extent, but a lot of the people leaving the church(s) have just replaced it with vague spirituality, homebrew beliefs, or other looser faiths.

              These days I’m much more inclined to take seriously the idea that supernatural belief is instinctual. Materialist atheism will, unfortunately, probably remain a fringe belief.

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        But the belief in religion like Christianity comes with an afterlife. If you truly believe that there is a heaven and hell, torture is not going to make you drop those beliefs. On the flip side, if being gay was a choice, all you’re choosing is strife and being gay.

        I think it’s a perfectly fine argument.

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          I doubt that a potential future reward is going to allow a person to hold up under torture in the now. I think some Christians probably refuse to recant under torture because their sense of self is rooted in their religion, rather than because they expect a reward. Of course, paradise is part of those religious beliefs, so it’s hard to tell.

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            I think it’s less of a reward, more of a fear. How can I turn my back on god and risk eternal damnation? That’s a powerful thing right there. But true, it is also a massive part of some people’s identity.

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      Well, all those Christians that are the victims of society for one. Them choosing the “difficult path of faith” explains at least part of the reason for why they are so unempathetic.

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        Them choosing the “difficult path of faith” explains at least part of the reason for why they are so unempathetic.

        And why there are so many closeted homosexuals in their ranks.

        It’s easy to believe sexuality is a choice when you’re constantly fighting your “deviant” urges.