How many of you consider texting an ex that was an amicable breakup to see if they’d be up for a hookup.
Update : I created a group text with all of them and now we are planning a 30 person Orgy at the Marriott in San Francisco.
Lol jk I just woke up and made eggs.
I’mma leave this up since I’m late to the party on this one and there’s already a discussion, but in the future please remember rule #2 and phrase all post titles in the form of a question. This is like Jeopardy! ;)
On that note, if everyone is on board and copacetic, I say go for it and you deserve some mad props for pulling that off.
In my experience, drunk texting an ex is never a good idea, but it takes different strokes to move the world.
Awwww beans, thanks for your flexibility!
From a mod of one community to another- game recognizes game 🏆 thank you for what you do.
Not even sober…
no, it’s never a good idea, not even out of desperation
I personally wouldn’t recommend it
nope. Inadvisable.
No
Don’t ever text an ex while drunk.
Thought: “I want to text my ex”
- Is it past 8pm? Do not text.
- Are you drunk? Do not text.
- Jack off, then consider again if you still want to text
- Did you break up with them, leaving mixed feelings? Do not text, you will hurt them
- Did they break up with you? Do not text. You will hurt yourself.
- Was it a mutual break up? Then why do you want to hook up? Someone will get hurt.
Unless you were previously just a fling/FWB, hooking up randomly with a long term ex is the pathway to pain and hurt, for one or both of you. If one of you is still healing, you will just reopen that wound.
Do not drunk text your ex for a hook up.
Stopped at “Thought:” and texted my ex.
The wanking idea works for me, until I text during it.
It’s a bold move cotton, let’s see how it plays out.
Don’t listen to everyone else, they clearly don’t know your situation and that it is totally different to theirs. It’s a fantastic idea, and can only end in the situation you are hoping for. Please keep us updated on how it goes :)
In case that wasn’t motivating enough for you to try this amazing idea and report back to us (v. important) try these sentences:
- you miss all the shots you don’t take
- would you rather live the rest of your life not knowing?
- if no one took risks, we’d have never crossed the seas
You’re my kind of evil.
That’s a lot of us here 😅
Missed “itll be different this time”
No.
Also drunk and I understand the desire but no
Not even on a good day.
Absolutely not
Nah, I’m not attracted to her anymore. We’re friends and it’ll stay at that. There are fundamental reasons for which we broke up and sexual compatibility was one of them. Sex with her was always “alright”. Never mind-blowing.
When I was younger and drunk, I’d text crushes and embarrass myself. None of them cared for me one bit. Since then, I have been drunk once and being rejected is one of the reasons.
My ex wife did this last month. But she wasn’t drunk, nor was it just a text. I received a pic of her nude bottom half and the text: open if you want to visit.
I left it on “read”.
Amicable or not, this is just using the other person.
So I can definitely imagine amicable breakups where there is still sexual contact (e.g. you don’t get along living together, but you’re both fine being fwb).
But if the first time you’re thinking about it is when you’re drunk, that’s not be a good sign. Sleep on it, then tomorrow think about what you want the “relationship” to look like going forward. If they’re likely to feel the same way (as a person that lives inside your computer, I don’t know them), you can ask them with a clear head (and not in a flirty way). Just respect their answer and don’t be a creep if they say no.
Don’t listen to this guy he’s a liar, he says he lives in your computer but he’s really in my phone.
My wife and I have hooked up with one of her exes, the reason they broke up was over whether or not to have kids, but unless you’re certain that they’ll not be mad don’t do it. Even my amicable exes I’d be annoyed if they only messaged to hook up
