I think you are misguided. Given your level of experience, you are not in a position to spew hot takes on software architecture.
There is something else underneath this. Did you try to use linux or something?
General advice when it comes to software is to just start. There are always different paths, depending on what type of programmer you are. My opiniom: choose simple, not easy.
People like you should be in leadership positions. The landscape rewards quick solutions, and quick solutions are rarely good solutions. “Whatever works” might still be a bad solution, just look at electron and that entire ecosystem.