Men dream as male character, women dream as female character how do trans persons dream then? Trans men as men?? Trans women as women??

  • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 months ago

    I transitioned nearly 20 years ago and have been involved in online trans communities since then. This is the first time I’ve heard that removing the space between transmen and transwomen is a TERF thing.

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      4 months ago

      It’s their way of saying that trans women aren’t women and trans men aren’t men. It’s less of a technicality thing and more of a “I’m going to be skeptical about this person’s intentions until I see more”

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        4 months ago

        That doesn’t make any sense. How does a space change the meaning? Especially after the words have been widely used in the trans community for decades?

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          4 months ago

          it changed its meaning because bad actors decided to use that term specificlly, to imply that “trans[gender]” is a third sort of option (that is not part of the “normal” or “real” genders) and also the biggest enemy of “real [gender]” and especially “real women”. The same way “transsexual” became a slur, the same way “retarded” or “special needs” became slurs/insults. If you say someone’s name with enough hatred in your voice enough times it’ll become an insult as well.

          it’s stupid i know, and we should reclaim it at one point, but for now it’s a dogwhistle for transphobes, at least in online spaces

          • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            4 months ago

            That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I’m a transman and will continue to call myself such.

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              4 months ago

              alright, i’m not judging you? I’m just making you aware of the current connotations of using that term