• deegeese@sopuli.xyz
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    4 months ago

    3 posts about… pronouns in the build log?

    If you go through life looking for things to take offense, you will always be outraged.

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      4 months ago

      If you go through life looking for things to take offense, you will always be outraged.

      This is what I tell my sister. She got angry at me for hanging my hats on these little hooks that hang off of closet doors. I have many hats, and not much room. She got mad that the outside of my closet door had hats on it.

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      4 months ago

      an abrasive rejection to a polite change request

      Does offense have to factor into it when judging a behavior as undesirable?

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        4 months ago

        I was referring to OP, who decided today was the day to stir up a 3 year old PR on a small project run by a volunteer.

        That’s not the way to gain allies.

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          4 months ago

          Ah I see. Could have easily been all in one thread.

          I only became aware of Ladybug recently from another post here so I found this PR informative and unfortunate even though it’s old. If this no longer represents their views and potential future behavior then why bring it up, else it’s not aged.

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      4 months ago

      Sometimes it’s the only way to feel anything 🤬 awww it didn’t work.

    • knightly the Sneptaur@pawb.social
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      4 months ago

      One doesn’t have to go looking, there’s lots of assholes who think it’s “apolitical” to assume that everyone working in software is a dude.

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        4 months ago

        Bad example at the end though, loads of of people use “dude” as a gender neutral term though. But yeah I take your meaning about assuming men in dev.