People are a little bit stingier in barber chairs and Ubers than they were just a few years ago.

The shares of adults who say they always tip their hair stylists, servers at sit-down restaurants and food delivery people have each fallen 8 percentage points since 2021, according to a Bankrate survey released Wednesday. That rate slipped 7 percentage points for taxi and ride-hail drivers over the same period.

Three years ago, the economy was reopening from the pandemic and inflation was higher than it is now, but so was concern for front-line workers.

At the time, three-quarters of consumers reported always tipping restaurant servers, but today just two-thirds do. Despite modest upticks since last year, barely more than half of people now count themselves reliable tippers of hairdressers (55%) and food delivery drivers (51%), while only 41% say the same when it comes to ordering a ride.

The survey reflects Americans’ growing ease bypassing ubiquitous tipping prompts, from coffeeshops to airport terminals in the post-Covid economy, especially as sticker prices have risen. While consumer spending has held remarkably steady, many households are feeling the squeeze from persistent inflation and tightening their belts accordingly. Some of that newfound caution may be factoring into when, where and how much people tip.

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    i stopped tipping when i was double charged for the tip included.

    i tried keeping track of each POS that included gratuity but i can only get burned so many times before i stop using that stove altogether.

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    If everyone stopped tipping at the same time, say labor day, then businesses would need to properly pay their staff again. As soon as tipping became expected the whole system was fucked.

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    they should honestly ban tips on credit card machines and mandate a “cashback” option instead allowing 1-10 dollars of cash back.

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    I over tip on purpose. A dozen years in the service industry making $3.35 hr + tips, more for bartending. These people are making far below minimum wage in most states. If you want to stop tipping, then be ready to campaign for the workers, be ready to pay more for your meals, and get ready for some shitty shitty service.

    Why shitty service? Because most of your good (and beyond) servers and bartenders are there in part because how much they make depends on how good they are. They have more control over what they make than anyone else on the property. Don’t underestimate that part of the equation. Once you make these positions hourly, you’ll attract hourly workers and you’ll get the same level of service you do on the phone.

    So if you want tipping to go away, support your fellow wage slaves and make sure they get paid an actual living wage. $10/hr ain’t gonna make it.

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      Ah so that explains why I never tip here in Australia and get shitty service!

      Oh wait, the service here is far better than every time I’ve visited North America 🤔

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      I understand your perspective, but you were a victim of a fucked up system and continue to be. I agree that giving up tipping would require us to also support the workers getting a fair wage. But the whole rest of the world has proven your “shitty service” theory entirely wrong - they are able to pay food service workers properly AND give great service, and I suspect the whole world would chime in with a wealth of experience. And not paying slave labor wages doesn’t drive the cost of goods up as much as the capitalists would lead you to believe. Again, proven by the entirety of Europe.

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      Nah, fuck the tipping policies in the USA. You really need something like a sensible minimum wage to prevent this bullshit. You’re just supporting this bullshit system where capitalists exploit their laborers.

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    STOP TIPPING. The whole world doesn’t tip, it’s a strange and stupid US thing. Just stop tipping please!

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      Germany does tip sometimes. But mostly we round up to the next thing that feels right. For me it is usually between 1-5€, but I never tip a percentage or use the tip option on a payment terminal. Sometimes I just don’t tip. It is never a problem. It is a bonus not a necessity here.

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      This should be the next “movement” the internet gets behind. Everyone stops tipping, and watch people freak out.

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        And then, after a bit of confusion, tipping will end and waiters will get paid the right amount – no tipping needed

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        ![description for screen readers](https://media.tenor.com/D8tqN5Dc45cAAAAM/puffer-fish-join-us.gif) to embed your gif in your comment. Important is the exclamation mark at the start, which is what distinguishes it from a regular hyperlink.

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    I have a rule I’ve long lived by: never piss off the people who cut your hair, make (or get) your food, and work on your teeth.

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    • Uber’s get $1 - $3 depending on driver/distance
    • To-go orders get NOTHING.
    • Sit down food gets 15-20%, depending on server
    • Drinks at a bar get $1-$2 each drink.
    • Barber probably gets the biggest tip at $10-$15, but base price is going up so maybe adjusting down next time.

    And I do not do delivery apps.

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      As a service person, this sounds great. You actually tip your barber more than I do.

      The only thing I think you didn’t account for is fancier bars with elaborate cocktails, which tbf most people do not frequent. I’d do 15-20% for those, simply because it’s more involved service and more involved drinks.

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        I always tip my hair cutting person 100%. I wanted a hair cut, the hair cut cost $x, that person literally does the entire thing often with their own equipment that they paid for. The place will charge me $x because that’s what the haircut is worth to me but I know the person that actually physically cut my hair with their skills and labor won’t get $x and I think that’s bullshit.

        In many other kinds of transactions someone can go “oh well the business deserves a cut of the profits because they provided the ingredients, or they stocked the inventory, or yadda yadda yadda”. But the hair cut is the one place where with my own eyes I witness the full body of labor occur and see who does it. That person deserves the value that their labor produced, not some owner sitting off in their beach house doing plenty I’m sure but one thing I’m damn sure they aren’t doing is cutting my fucking hair.

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      • To-go orders get NOTHING.

      My comment is entirely scoped to to-go orders; I agree with everything else you say (though I haven’t used a ride share in forever).

      I always tip for to-go orders in my hometown. Now my favorite places call out my name as I enter and treat me great. I’ve seen them replace the pizza stacked with my order with a fresh pizza right out of the oven, for example, or they’ve given me an extra pizza or side.

      When I’m on the road, I still tip $1 for to-go orders because I know the workers are still getting a shit wage.

      Granted, I’m in a financial position where I can afford to do this. But I’d love if we could get rid of the whole tipped-minimum-wage thing and just raise minimum wages across the board/enact UBI to make tipping only for exemplary service.

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        It’s a genuinely nice thing you’re trying to do, so on the one hand, I don’t want to discourage it, but on the other hand, every tip workers get is an incentive to not raise wages. Hell, if they make enough in tips, they’ll start actively lowering wages for new hires. Someone I know always likes to tip, but I just see management thanking them for covering their labor costs for them.

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      Nope.

      • Pay the Uber driver based on whether they get out of the car and help you with bags. $1 or $2 per bag. I used to do that job. Driving the car is not that hard. Everything else needs a tip.
      • To go orders get 5%. They are doing something for you. It’s not fast food.
      • Sit down food should be 20% minimum. Adjust based on the service, or the worst employees are getting paid the same as the best.
      • The other guy is right. You should tip based on the skill involved. Pouring a beer: $1. Making a mixed drink: $2 to $3.
      • You are tipping your barber too much. Avoid the chain and go to the local place where the barber gets 100% of the money, they just rent the chair. Tip 20% like normal.
      • Delivery apps are totally fine in areas with lots of delivery drivers.

      Basically, tip based on effort. Or you will end up with people who do not put in effort. It’s true they don’t tip in Europe. But it’s much harder to get the attention of a waiter there. “Oh I’m sorry, am I interrupting your coordinated smoke break with all the other waiters? I just wanted to exchange money for food if that’s ok with you.”

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        Bullshit, I get good service, even in Germany. People take their jobs seriously if they get paid enough. We just round up to a sensible sum and that’s it. Fuck shelling out 20% for a tip, that’s just straight up dumb.

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    For me there’s 3 tiers

    Takeout/drive thru food of every kind? No tip. If it’s labeled fast food and I have to drive to you to get it, you can pry that shit from my cold dead heart.

    Family owned non-chain restaurants. That’s a tip. These people out here trying their best against a McDonald’s franchisee. Easily worth a few extra.

    Delivery is where I tip, they put extra wear on a car and had to put up with the American public on roads between here and the store. That’s worth the extra $5-10 Dollars. Especially if it’s raining/almost midnight.

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      Pretty much the same, delivery I tip based on how much stuff, how difficult, or bad weather is getting it to me. NOT on the item cost. It’s not any harder for the delivery person to deliver sushi than it is a breakfast sandwich.

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    I’ll tip my waiter/waitress. I refuse to tip a PoS device. I have no shame selecting the “No tip” button on those things.

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    I went to get blood lab work done today. When I went to pay the kiosk asked for a tip.

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      You aren’t fighting the man by not tipping (in the traditional areas), you’re screwing your fellow worker.

      You’re just being cheap.

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        You’re absolutely “fighting the man”. You not tipping puts pressure on the owner class to pay a decent living wage to their employees or risk losing their workforce over time. Just need to all continue to hold on this trend that the article describes and keep that arrow going down. At the same time, these workers will be motivated to unionize and get the worth of their labor with current union momentum that’s on the increase.

        “Not fighting the man”… What a hollow statement?

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          This only works in an idealized perfect scenario which doesn’t exist. You not tipping only hurts the delivery driver and doesn’t touch the man whatsoever. Furthermore companies are only required to pay 7.25 federally unless state has other laws, which many don’t. So best case scenario you are bumping people up to 7.25 which isn’t even close to a living wage and wouldn’t do a thing for vehicle maintenance and gas.

          You are welcome to believe that you are sticking to the man not tipping but the reality is that you are fucking over hard working people short term. Even if everyone unilateral agreed to stop tipping it would take years for the system to fully catch up and again you would be fucking them over during those years.

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            It will always be like this… until it isn’t. Your argument is tired. “The moment” eventually has to happen to force change. You take things like the 40 hour work week and weekends for granted, but people died in labor demonstrations and factory disasters to secure that comfort for us all. I pay my federal/state taxes and local levies, I support social safety net programs. These tips will not be the difference between someone eating or not, but it may be enough for them to force the ruling class to cede just a little more profit to the workers (or pressure the state to act against business of those social safety net programs are being more heavily utilized).

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              Your argument isn’t grounded in reality which is my argument, propose a plan that will actually have impact past screwing service workers.

              I’m not sure what your point is with labor demonstrations, those people got change though very bloody(not voluntarily bloody) organized protests, not tipping isn’t even close to an accurate comparison. A little more profit to the working class is a crumlet and just doesn’t do shit for service workers, let’s focus on taking the pie back which again not tipping isn’t doing.

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          You’re absolutely “fighting the man”. You not tipping puts pressure on the owner class to pay a decent living wage to their employees or risk losing their workforce over time.

          No, you’ve got it wrong. By going and not tipping, “the man” is still making their money. It’s the server you’re putting pressure on to leave that job and find something better. Sure, at some point, this might rise up and screw “the man” but the reality is that it requires stomping on a bunch of workers for your own benefit. You’re basically telling a server, who might even like tipping because it benefits them, that they have to do the work to make the change you want. It’s selfish, just like not tipping.

          If you want to stick it to those owners who don’t pay fair wages to their workers, don’t patronize their establishments.

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            Don’t have the energy for everything that needs response in that, maybe reread it a couple times and respond to yourself

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              Then just leave? What’s the point of a comment like this? Do you not realize how childish it makes you look?

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                Childish is you being completely oblivious to any nuance in my previous post and not responding to it substantively when you choose to respond. You’re a child in a room full of adults having a conversation and you’re punching kneecaps and screaming down there, feisty little guy!

                You hold a smartphone with the collective knowledge of humanity in your hand, and you think that because you have quick access to that intelligence, it means you are intelligent. But you have no idea what you’re actually talking about.

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                  You don’t have the energy to make a point, but you do have the energy to throw around empty insults. Good for you, really have your priorities straight.

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        Don’t forget that it’s the employer paying the shitty wage that is the one screwing over the worker. This is exactly what those employers want, to be able to pay shitty wages and have the blame shifted to someone else.

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          Don’t forget that it’s the employer paying the shitty wage that is the one screwing over the worker.

          I’m not defending the tipping culture, but it’s baked into the idea of how much these people are paid by their employer. By not tipping, you’re just screwing them, not sticking it to the man. It’s just an attempt to justify being cheap.

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            I really really don’t agree with this. They have already been screwed by their boss, you are choosing whether to Bail the boss out or not. The dynamic will never change by continuing your stance, you’ll just keep on bailing out the rich guys.

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              There’s an expectation that you tip, right or wrong. If you don’t tip, you’re just screwing them, not the boss.

              If you want to change it, screwing the worker is not the best path.

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                I didn’t say you would be screwing the boss. What you are doing by tipping is letting them away with it. I understand the expectation, I think it shouldn’t exist, I think it’s wrong. I also refuse to take a job like that which I believe IS the way to change it.

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                  Going and not tipping is still letting them “get away with it” because they still make their money. The person who makes less is the worker who served you the food. The owner still gets their money. If you want to hit the boss in the pocket book, you don’t go to places that rely on tipping their workers. That’s how you put pressure on the owner.

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            Again you’re blaming the consumer but totally overlook the employer being cheap and paying shitty wages. You’re playing right into their hand.

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              Again you’re blaming the consumer but totally overlook the employer being cheap and paying shitty wages.

              It’s currently part of our culture and an expectation. We all agree that it should go away, but as of now, regardless of whether the boss is being cheap, if you don’t tip you’re being cheap and only screwing the worker, as the boss still makes their money.

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    I quit tipping. That is not true. The last pizza I had delivered to work I gave the lady a ten. Physically gave it to her. Not added it to a app that you know is going to give them less than the tip. If they give them anything at all. I quit tipping through the checkout/payment process.

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    I don’t know about hairdressers and drivers, but many servers are legally paid less than minimum wage because they are expected to make up the difference in tips.

    So this is essentially people being fucked over by not being paid enough fucking over other people who aren’t being paid enough. And if you object to them not being paid enough, the solution isn’t to not tip them, it’s to not go to the restaurant.

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      They are supposed to be paid the difference if tips plus base pay don’t add up to minimum wage. But I’m guessing a lot of places don’t do it.

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        The minimum wage for tip workers is often lower in most states then minimum wage for non-tipped workers.

        New York is the only state that I know of that has a minimum wage equity law where tipped workers have to be paid the same minimum wage as anyone else after tips, and if they aren’t, the employer has to make up the difference.

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          California has, for a while now, required that tipped workers be paid the same minimum wage as anyone else, period. Tips are extras on top of minimum wage.

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          In Oregon tipped employees are required to be paid the state minimum wage. Tips are considered extra on top of that. Seems to be an exception though unfortunately.

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          No, that’s a Federal requirement, too. It only requires them to be brought up to the $7.25/hour Federal minimum wage so it’s pretty useless, but it exists.

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        If you aren’t making up the difference, you probably aren’t going to last long anyway.

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    Anyone else notice the “essential workers” never got that minimum wage increase?

    I get republicans not supporting it, but the moderate Dems not fighting for them is going to hurt in November…

    Voters know Republicans obstruct progress, but they need to see that Dems are at least willing to have the fight.

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      Where I live they got it. While it isn’t law, the local fast food is all starting at $16/hour or more.

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        I mean, wages can go down, and will go down when there’s a larger labor pool.

        Which is why we should have taken advantage of the small labor pool during COVID to raise minimum wage.

        We had a chance to raise it while workers have leverage, but republicans will always oppose it and moderate Dems didn’t push for it, so nothing happened.

        That’s wildly considered the biggest negative of moderate Dems, they don’t act when we have the leverage to get things done. They tell us to be happy with temporary things we can lose tomorrow, like how they refused to modify Roe v Wade while we had the numbers to codify it, now it’s gone.

        They don’t actually want to fight for us. They’re controlled opposition to make sure when we do have the opportunity/leverage to fix shit, we waste that time “looking into” if we should really fix it. Then when the opportunity passes, they say they tried.

        But they didn’t.