• snooggums@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    I am good with knowing my deficiencies. What sucks is being told that they are my fault because I should be “smart enough to overcome them”.

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      It’s actually insane how many teachers and other education professionals waved me off with ‘you’re smart enough, just try harder’ while I was obviously suicidally depressed and extremely dysfunctional. Having undiagnosed autism because I was a teenage girl in the '00s was fun.

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        1 year ago

        Or being a jack of all trades and getting potshots for not being an expert in everything just because you pick up the basics quickly.