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    6 months ago

    Most people don’t think about what others say to them this obsessively because they recognize others don’t actually want to know how their day is going.

    Like if I don’t know you and you share your dad died you’re gonna get some Mickey Mouse ass shit from me because I simply was not ready for you to let your trauma leak onto my already unsteady mood.

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        I’m sorry bro I don’t make the rules. You can get away with it if you find enough neurodivergent friends.

        What I was saying in a nutshell is: you’re not the main character for anyone else but your parents, which, pretty awkward to just say to someone who’s dad died.