I relate to this a lot. In fact, I’m in that situation right now. I agreed to being partnered up with someone in a team, but the more I get to know them, the more I realize I want nothing to do with them. I guess in the process, I’m learning to become more aware of initial behaviors that are indicative of people that are a poor fit for my life. My autism therapist is 100% going to be thinking in her head this week, “I told you so!” when I update her on this particular person. Luckily, I’ve learn to not be as embarrassed as I used to be lol