Y’all gonna hate me for this, but I’m simply not going to complain unless there was violence

@shalafi I don’t hate on you. If you have in fact been sexually assaulted or coerced you deserve our compassion not hate.

Every rape victim has the right to be silent if they prefer. It’s up to you how you process this.

It’s also not uncommon for people who were molested or raped to minimized what happened to themselves or even deny what it was. And that’s totally okay.

But that doesn’t mean you get to define other people’s experiences for them or dictate our reaction to it as a society.