All true, every word! But see my comment, unless there was violence involved, or an STD, I’m not going to care. I’ve laughed it off as foolishness on my part, no emotional or physical harm.

But as you said, I’d hesitate to report. Who’s going to believe a man or care? OTOH, how many times is a man in a position where a woman overpowered him and violated him? I’d report that kinda situation, but it probably wouldn’t go anywhere unless I had strong evidence. And like man-on-woman rape, evidence is often slippery and hard to nail down.