• Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online
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      21 days ago

      Tucking literally isn’t enough for me, I feel dysphoria because I have it, not just because other people see it. I still feel it and know its there. It feels gross, it makes me feel gross. I just wish it was gone 😭

    • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      Issue is, it’s not just the looks, but also:

      • people just feel dysphoric about it in general,
      • some people would like to (primarily) be penetrated, but anal sex is too painful for them,
      • even then, it needs preparation, unless you’re a special kind of pervert that likes the fact, that people poop from there,
      • genital preferences of others.
    • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de
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      22 days ago

      coward, if people can’t handle your glory that just means they’re envious.

      athletes wear tiny tight pants all the time and no one tells them to tuck

      • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works
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        22 days ago

        Good point, in that case a “dance belt” may be a good choice. It helps keep your balls from getting stuck on that seam between your legs, provides freedom of movement, and makes the total bulge more prominent (while also smoothing out the actual details).

  • KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    21 days ago

    I think that a large majority of trans girls don’t have body shapes like that, so the idea kinda falls flat and you end up hating yourself because even after bottom surgery, you still can’t pull off that look at all.

    Not that I would know anything about that 🤥

    Edit: Yes, I get that this is on the extreme side of things, but as I said in another comment, there is a phenotype and often we don’t fit into the one we so desperately want to.

    I often times hate these trans/hrt memes because of how comedically unrealistic the results they portray are and how shitty they make me feel.

    Its a bone of contention for me.

    • usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca
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      22 days ago

      a large majority of trans girls don’t have body shapes like that

      Cis girls too. These are extreme body types (likely a good bit of photo fuckery too)

      • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world
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        21 days ago

        I at least notice heavy photoshopping on the middle and right one, especially apparent from the front. Yeah, cosplayers often do a lot of photoshopping, especially the erotic ones. Sometimes to a laughable amount, to still get an hourglass-shape while someone’s plus sized (which wouldn’t be a problem for me, except other men).

    • RBWells@lemmy.world
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      22 days ago

      A large majority of us born female (female-bodied) also do not have that shape either. In fact even those models probably don’t have that shape.

      • KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        22 days ago

        Sure, not that extreme a shape, but there is a phenotype. I don’t have that phenotype, so I go for expensive surgeries to fit into the correct phenotype.

  • yuri@pawb.social
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    22 days ago

    whats funny is they genuinely would look better to me if they had realistic proportions, i’m attracted to humans not skeletons w/ass

      • yuri@pawb.social
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        21 days ago

        maybe you meant to reply to someone else? i said “i don’t think this is attractive or realistic” not some whack ass shit about my own body goals.

        • morphballganon@mtgzone.comEnglish
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          21 days ago

          No, I replied to the right person. When you call proportions that exist unrealistic, you are calling the people who have them fake, so you deserved some light ribbing.

  • Lad@reddthat.com
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    22 days ago

    Ass always looks good in tight fitting suits, doesn’t need to be a phat round booty ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • First Majestic Comet@lemm.ee
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    21 days ago

    Who says you can’t, I’ve done it before and it’s fine, just gotta push the bits to the side or tuck them down below but it still works.

  • smiletolerantly@awful.systems
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    21 days ago

    Ngl, being able to wear leggins is about 90% of the benefit of SRS for me.

    It’s been 5 or 6 years, 100% worth it.

    • Sent from my phone while wearing leggins
  • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online
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    21 days ago

    Yes I really want it. I don’t really care about wearing these tight looking outfits. I just want to not have these things (my penis and my testicles) hanging between my legs, they’re disgusting. HRT has shrank them a lot but I would be much happier if they were completely gone and I had a vagina, or even nothing at all. I’d rather have nothing than have them. I did actually try to cut them off before but I didn’t have it in me to get little more than through the surface before backing out from the blood and pain.

    • RubberElectrons@lemmy.world
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      21 days ago

      Wouldn’t that potentially cause a lot (a loooot) of blood loss? Genetalia seem to be pretty well circulated, see: what stays warm when cold.

      Hope you’re doing ok

      • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online
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        21 days ago

        I’m doing better now. That was before I was on HRT that I tried to do away with them myself. I’m feeling better now, less grossed out and uncomfortable because of how much they’ve shrank. I still wish they were completely gone though.