It is not uncommon to see short men share their horror stories about how much their life sucks and how they can’t even enter public clubs all over their height (which they have no control over). These people point out how they want female attention at these clubs, only for these women to deliberately ignore them and go up to taller men instead, and start seducing them, like a bunch of sluts. And you’re all just going to normalize this and say things like “that’s just how life is”… You’re all heartless! These so-called “short men” are hurt, and you all just don’t care… Women out of all people should care the most about this, but just look at what modern society’s done to them… If being feminine matters to you women, there’s nothing feminine about how you act at these clubs. None of this is okay, and shouldn’t be happening, but you all just normalize it… Tall men are way above average height, and their height isn’t normal, and shouldn’t be attractive. I hope these types of clubs get banned in the US eventually

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    These people point out how they want female attention at these clubs, only for these women to deliberately ignore them and go up to taller men instead, and start seducing them, like a bunch of sluts

    “I was entitled to feeeeeeeemale attention but didn’t get any, therefore the women are sluts.”

    Your problem isn’t your height. Your problem is that you’re an unlikeable misogynistic cockwomble

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      2 months ago

      You don’t get it, they are only sluts when they are giving other men attention. When they are giving OP attention, they are graceful, heavenly creatures (who should also give him some sex).

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    2 months ago

    Stop going to clubs if you don’t like them. I’m not short but I still hate their vibe.

    Focus on improving yourself and learn to be happy with who you are. Don’t go to clubs.

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      I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. When I see female used inappropriately in a post, I always hear it in Quark’s voice.

      That being said, for all the things wrong with the post, they used female, feminine, man and woman in the correct contexts. THIS TIME! :P

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    As a short dude (5’ 0"), you give short dudes a bad name.

    You assume you know everything about everyone, you treat people like walking stereotypes instead of treating them like actual individuals, and you refuse to even consider that people are avoiding you for your personality instead of your height. All the while, you are blaming women for a problem that, even if it did exist as much as you insist, would largely be perpetuated by the men who run the clubs, not the women who can get in for free and usually just want to be left alone so they can dance with their friends.

    Are there a lot of areas where we face actual discrimination because we fall outside standard height considerations? Sure, I can think of several. None of them have to do with whether I get into a club. And you don’t make your case by using discriminatory language and being a misogynistic ass.

    I can guarantee you that your attitude is hindering your social life far more than your height. There are plenty of women who love short men, but so many of them end up needing to constantly worry about their man’s ego that they don’t think it is worth it.

    In other words: men like you, no matter the height, are the reason women choose the bear. Grow up, solve your own insecurities, and stop assuming that you know what is going through people’s minds every minute of the day.