I have been propositioned by swingers quite a bit. It’s to the point that if a couple is nice to me, I start getting suspicious. This has happened with acquaintances, long-time friends, people I’ve met at a party, co-workers, and even strangers at the beach. Three times that I can remember off the top of my head, they propositioned me and my girlfriend at the time (separate girls many years apart). Is this a normal thing? What about me could make me attractive to swinger couples?

I’m a cis-gendered straight male. As far as physical attractiveness, I would say I’m slightly above average based on what women have told me and how they treat me.

  • jballs@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    3 months ago

    I’ve asked people to join threesomes before, and I ask hot and cool people with style.

    I first read that as you stylishly asking people to have a 3-way.

    ( •_•)>⌐■-■

    (⌐■_■)

    Hey good lookin’, wanna bang?

    • Varyk@sh.itjust.works
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      3 months ago

      Haha, yea, unintentional but fairly accurate.

      I absolutely love that character-people-drawing

      There’s a word for that I don’t know?

      Type-doodle?

      • thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz
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        3 months ago

        They’re called kaomoji, like emoji. In Japanese, emoji means “image-letters” and kaomoji means “face-letters.” The English word for them is probably emoticons, but that more refers to things like :-) and xD. Kaomoji can be called “Japanese emoticons.”

        If you have an Android phone, your keyboard has built-in kaomoji ヾ⁠(⁠ ͝⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ͡⁠°⁠)⁠ノ⁠♪. You can access them by opening up the emoji panel at the bottom left, then tapping the “:-)” button at the bottom right, which contains some western emoticons but many categories of kaomoji