What the hell ?!, I was banned for basically saying Andrew Tate is a scumbag, and Prophet Mohammed is a pedophile… did I accuse someone of something they didn’t do ? Nope
- For Tate it doesn’t take long to see how much of a A-hole he is … just watch some of his vide… Or don’t…
- For Prophet Mohammed, here’s your proof
(عن عائشة قالت تزوجني رسول الله ﷺ وأنا بنت ست ودخل علي وأنا بنت تسع سنين) حاشية السندي على سنن النسائي: أبو الحسن، محمد بن عبد الهادي نور الدين السندي (المتوفى: 1138هـ)
( وَكُنْت أَلْعَب بِالْبَنَاتِ ) قَالَ فِي النِّ��َايَة أَيْ التَّمَاثِيل الَّتِي يَلْعَب بِهَا الصَّبَايَا قَالَ الْقَاضِي عِيَاض فِيهِ جَوَاز اِتِّخَاذ اللَّعِب وَإِبَاحَة لَعِب الْجَوَارِي بِهَا وَقَدْ جَاءَ فِي الْحَدِيث أَنَّ النَّبِيّ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَأَى ذَلِكَ فَلَمْ يُنْكِرهُ قَالُوا وَسَبَبُه تَدْرِيبُهنَّ بِتَرْبِيَةِ الْأَوْلَاد وَإِصْلَاح شَأْنهنَّ وَبُيُوتهنَّ قَالَ النَّوَوِيّ وَيَحْتَمِل أَنْ يَكُون مَخْصُوصًا مِنْ أَحَادِيث النَّهْي عَنْ اِتِّخَاذ الصُّوَر لِمَا ذُكِرَ مِنْ الْمَصْلَحَة وَيَحْتَمِل أَنْ يَكُون هَذَا مَنْهِيًّا عَنْهُ وَكَانَتْ قَضِيَّة عَائِشَة هَذِهِ وَلَعِبهَا فِي أَوَّل الْهِجْرَة قَبْل تَحْرِيم الصُّوَر قُلْت وَيَحْتَمِل أَنْ يَكُون ذَلِكَ لِكَوْنِهِنَّ دُون الْبُلُوغ فَلَا تَكْلِيف عَلَيْهِنَّ كَمَا جَازَ لِلْوَلِيِّ إِلْبَاس الصَّبِيّ الْحَرِير
But I can’t blame the mods for their incompetence, I can’t expect them to speak multiple languages and understand complexe cultural issues, I can’t expect them to have a critical eye for religion scriptures, and i certainly will expecting a lot if I asked for trying to understand someone life experiences and background before going for the nuclear option…
There’s that, but the other side of the coin is that if you defend that… it actually says something about the mod and their true personality… And if that’s the case …then it’s a shame
Anyways, I went back to see the mod log and Rule 2 is
- No bigotry, racism, antisemitism, dehumanisation of minorities, or glorification of National Socialism.
Not only does this rule blend everything together, but it’s vague and lacking… and the entire sub has three rules in total… lol
Oh and btw, I was banned from a sublemmy then the entire server afterwards
I actually just read your message now, this is exactly why you got banned. You take a disagreement where people are being civil, and go to an extreme. Insulting both them, their thoughts, in the most divisive way you can think of.
In fact, you haven’t learned anything from this experience. Would you act this way in person? You meet somebody at the airport and you just go down this path? Why do you think this is a good way to communicate? Do you think this is good rhetoric? Are you being persuasive here? Somebody you disagreed with, will now agree with you?
At best the conversation derails into name calling, at worst now you have people arguing so much, they drown out any other constructive conversation. This is a net negative for any community. This level of hate
I obviously didn’t mean to do that for real, I went to the extreme just to demonstrate a point… It’s the quickest way people get the point…
calling for my admins to ban me is just… bizarre let’s just put it that way…
So in a real life scenario you would call the cops if someone said something were they turned out to be the assholes ?
Also, keep in mind that I’m here actually having a civil discussion, trying to understand what went wrong, why do admins do that ? getting different perspectives!! Unlike the mod who hides behind the ban button and bans no questions asked, we will never get their side of the story. Like I explained how does my comment fit in Rule 2???!!!
You still havent apologized for saying such terrible things about me. That speaks to your character. You have yet to accept any accountability for your own actions
I did not call on the administer to ban you, I actually asked them to look at your sock puppet account and evaluate it. If one of my users created a sock puppet and was very disruptive on a different community I would want to know about it. At the very minimum I would want to have a conversation with them
Yes I absolutely would call the police if someone was being disruptive. That’s literally what you’re supposed to do. See something say something.
I’ve told you multiple times in this conversation exactly why you got banned, then you demonstrated it for yourself two messages ago in this thread. You’ve justified your account getting banned multiple times over, and you still have not seen the problem with your behavior.
again, I went to the extreme just to demonstrate a point, by framing you in certain image to your admins, it’s likely they agree with me, because I’m telling them what to conclude in the process not just what happened… It’s obvious I don’t believe or think that about a random I talk to online otherwise I won’t be talking to them
disruptive, I said… key word… Said… Nothing more… Do you call the cops for someone saying something? This translates to calling the mods just because you don’t agree with someone online
I didn’t say anything wrong in the comments that got me banned… This is what this post is about…
If ANYONE wants to debate me on that…
Let’s go…actually scratch that … do your own research, and come backYou explained that what got me banned is the account suspected of being a puppet account or something like that…
Now you’re saying it’s my disability to learn form my mistakes ?
which one is it ??
### The Narcissist's Prayer That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
You need to take accountability for your actions if you ever want to grow as a human being. Being combative online is not a good way to live cuz it’ll spill over to your personal life
Being a narcissist is not a disability, it is a choice. You can choose better
I gave you one possible reason why a moderator would ban a fresh account that is only posting combative things. They are completely justified for banning somebody being combative in their community.
Would you want somebody acting like you talking to your children? Or your niece is and nephews? Is your language appropriate? Is your rhetoric coherent and constructive? Obviously not, so why should a moderator let you poison the well of their community? They are completely justified for removing a combative influence that you have demonstrated
Ok, I can see this is getting too personal for you, and you’re right, I guess I played with fire with the last paraphrase, and I apologize for naming you these names, I didn’t mean it like that, but before you speak to my character, just realize you haven’t commented on the subject matter ( point A + B that I talked about ) but instead just kept focusing on the premice of that discussion, your first explainer seemed well thought of, but this second explainer seem to be emotional, so I apologize for offending you, I can do better
You’re holding me to some unrealistic standards for the internet discussions as a whole, very few people talk like you’re describing here on Lemmy, actually I never saw a single person here talking like that… It’s usually lots of swearing here, I just made a comment and I was being honest, could I have phrased my comment better ? Absolutely, english isn’t my first language, but I’m wrong in my statements, I highly doubt it
I also think we should differentiate between a toxic subject and a toxic individual, if as a mod you don’t want toxicity in your community by all means delete posts that you know will have toxic comments, this means Religion and Politics are not allowed, that would have been totally fine
Thank you for apologizing
The reason I’m not talking about the subject matter that got you banned, is I don’t care. I don’t care why the moderators banned you, I just looked at their behavior, and your behavior and I found it correct. And then I’ve been spending the rest of this discussion explaining that to you.
There are many places here where you can discuss religion, your thoughts about it, your thoughts about the lore of religion, and you can do that in a constructive and fun way. But you can’t interject that wherever you please trying to get reactions out of people… That’s going to cause moderators to get kind of twitchy.
Moderators are like gardeners, they want to see the garden grow, they don’t want to see weeds show up in the garden, and they don’t want to see something happening that pushes away all the beautiful birds and insects they’re trying to attract to the garden.
I didn’t see an of what you described. Jet explained how your behavior would be unwelcome in heavily moderated communities and you got aggressively defensive.