I’m still on my journey of understanding the differences between autism and other. My focus today is eye contact, so let’s have a discussion!

Guiding questions:

  • What do you think is the underlying difference that causes autistic people to use less eye contact than others?

  • What does it feel like for you?

  • How do you interpret other people’s eye contact?

  • Do you avoid it, use short glances, or maintain NT-levels of eye contact?

  • Does it vary by situation?

  • Anything else you would like to discuss regarding eye contact?

Question is open to anyone. If not identified, then the assumption is the user is autistic. Otherwise, if you’re NT or other ND, please state so 🙂

  • Tull_Pantera@lemmy.todayEnglish
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    2 months ago

    I don’t think there actually is an autistic neurotype. I think humans are 90-95% unconscious, ignorant, and grossly intolerant in some ways since they simply lack world experience and deeply informed perspective. I’m pretty sure, after studying, that we’re talking about clusters of similar perspective and experience. Autism is disturbingly similar to the intersection of Borderline Personality Disorder, Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, Dissociative Identity Disorder, Schizotypal Personality Disorder and Psychosis. And that’s where I stop seeing a neurotype. Labels rarely carry nuance or deep information.

    If I start sharing about neurotypes you’re likely to get three full pages of links or three hundred pages of information… And it won’t be specifically focused on specific neurotypes similar to autism.

    “Too overwhelming that I dissociate” - I think in terms of a description of positive trauma as well as negative trauma, and a cluster of “So confusing, overwhelming, shocking and unable to be processed immediately or anytime soon, and seeming or actually inescapable”, along with “acceleration, compression and escalation”, mixed with “perceived demand avoidance”.

    Or maybe you think sex feels like eye contact during Salsa dancing? - I’m kinda serious with this -invertable’ perspective. “Inside-out” is far more than a concept.

    You’re welcome.