• Mothra@mander.xyz
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        1 year ago

        Both methods acceptable, but if it wasn’t on the profile then it definitely shouldn’t be brought up on the first date

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      1 year ago

      You want to get their interest, but as this might be one of those deal breaker questions, you should get it out of the way early. There’s no shame in breaking up from an incompatibility in attraction or sexual preference, but there should be some shame at sticking with it expecting another person to change for you.