4 pane comic of dolan on the left and spooderman on the right
pane 1 (dolan): cum join opensurce cummunity!
pane 2 (spooderman): shure! how joyn?
pane 3 (dolan): Here discord! (with discord logo)
pane 4 (spooderman with tears in eyes): y u do dis?
You sound like a frustrated maintainer, have you considered doing what I do with open source projects using discord as their means of communication?
Don’t take it seriously and move on.